Some widows start dating again and some never do. Some widows wait for that perfect man who is just like the husband who died.
You need to realize that you would not be the same wife because life and grief have changed you. Therefore, the same husband would probably not be the same perfect fit as it was the first time around.
Enjoy life and take control of your future. If the right man comes along then that’s great, but if not you need to be happy and contented. You and only you are responsible for how you live and feel.
Here is a link to a story of the realities of love written by a young bride, but it could also apply to some of us older ladies 🙂