You’re a smart and warmhearted woman with lots to give and you are missing the love you used to have with your husband. You know what it’s like to have a life with someone to love and you wonder about dating again.
But years have passed since you last dated and dating isn’t as easy or as comfortable as when you were younger.
It’s hard to strike a balance between real love and all the demands of a mature woman.
You’re still young and healthy so you get horny and you sleep with a guy and then wonder if you slept with him because you care or because you just needed some sex. Plain and simple, and yet it can confuse us.
We know that there are women out there who don’t have anything more to offer than we do and yet their dating life seems to run more smoothly.
The real thing is hard to find but it’s worth striving for, if that’s what we want again.
But having different experiences isn’t about sleeping around. It’s not about who you let into your bed but who you let into your heart.
Some widows never date again and that’s ok, but don’t base that decision on fear of the unknown.