Feeling sad  


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06/04/2017 10:12 am  

I lost my husband of 38 years 3 weeks ago and I feel so sad. I have a day or two of good days then a day or two of crying. I am trying to get out of the house so I am keeping active but when I am here I cry.

Will it ever get better? 

We never had children so I have no family close to me, just neighbors and church friends. I worry about if I have medical issues there will be no one to help me get home from procedures even simple procedures where you need a driver.

People tell me to get a dog or a cat but I dont know if it is too soon after.

Sometimes life just is not fair...I have lost my parents, two dogs and my husband.

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06/04/2017 6:00 pm  

Hi Nita,

   I too have lost my husband of 38 years. He passed away on Dec. 7th. 2016. Tomorrow will make it 4 months. 

   I have good days, but then I get the days where tears come so easy.   When I feel like I need some support, but I don't want to bother my family. I go to a bereavement group at our church. At first it was odd being there. But now it's better. I only go when I feel the need to.

   I hope things go as well as possible for you. 🙂




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