Socializing
One of the reasons why it’s hard to get back into socializing and meeting new people is the fear of being asked that dreaded question – “How long have you been married?” Of course I could have just taken my … Read More
Getting Together
Getting together with family and friends is important for our healing. When I became a widow at the age of 50 I knew that I had to make a life of my own. No one was going to do it … Read More
Honor Our Memories
There are many different ways to honor our memories. Planting a memorial tree could involve all family members and become a gathering place or a private area to relax and honor our memories. This type of memorial can mean a … Read More
Christmas Day 2023
Well, we finally got to Christmas Day 2023 and now we just have to get through today. The holiday season starts so early that by the time we finally get here we widows are tired, lonely and stressed to the … Read More
Holidays Intensify Grief
Holidays intensify grief and feelings of loss as we are flooded with memories of our husbands. Below are some tips that I hope will help you handle the holiday season. Break with tradition – Sometimes, it helps to change things … Read More
Kids at Christmas
I received this message, asking me, “It’s just me and the kids at Christmas and I don’t know how I’m going to get through it without breaking down. I would appreciate any advice you can give me”. In this Blog … Read More
Widows and Lonely Holidays
Widows and lonely holidays are almost a given as we are missing our loved ones. If there is one thing for sure it’s that loneliness only intensifies at this time of the year. Finding tangible ways to honor your husband … Read More
Holiday Get Togethers
Holiday Get Togethers – In the midst of our holiday get togethers there is a missing loved one. They are not with us in the physical sense, but they are with us in spirit and memories. The holidays can be … Read More
Widows Need Holiday Kindness
Widows need all the holiday kindness they can get, but what if the best way to get kindness is to give it? There is a saying, “to have a friend, you must first be a friend”. I think that also … Read More
Holiday and Special Occasion Guide
My Holiday and Special Occasion Guide was created because it’s hard to get through the special occasions and holidays while grieving the loss of our loved one. This guide will help you to do some planning and it’s the perfect … Read More