Your family and friends want to help but they just don’t know what to say and do. Share this video as it tells them just what they need to do. Don’t assume that they will know without you telling them, … Read More
YouTube video I did about why couple friends disappear. A lot of widows not only lose their husbands they also lose some friends that continue life/travel as a couple and you are not – sadly you are now single.
As widows we are often in a fog and dealing with daily issues overwhelms us. Everything is stressful and we often do the wrong things in the hope that it will bring us some relief from our pain and stress. … Read More
What do you think about dating within the first year of being a widow? This is a complicated topic and even widows have different opinions on this issue. What’s important is that no matter what we think, we always respect … Read More
There are always going to be people out there expressing their opinion about what a widow should or should not be doing. The only opinion that matters is your own.
In another time widows had to wear black for a year and not be seen having fun. Thank goodness times have changed, but yet, below the surface are people still judging widows?
As a widow, I’ve had people say hurtful things after Donnie died. It took me years to realize that they just didn’t really understand how they sounded. I’m sure that most of them didn’t mean to hurt my feelings, but … Read More
Many widows wear their wedding rings till the day they die and others take them off the first year. The key here is that this is a very personal decision and others need to keep their opinions to themselves.
I can’t stress this enough – keeping a journal is a great tool to write out all your emotions. It’s hard to find your balance as a widow, and a journal is a great way to track your feelings, the … Read More
Everyone keeps saying that you will feel better in time, but grief isn’t measured by how much time has passed.