As widows, I think we often deprive ourselves of things that can bring us joy, either because we don’t have time, we are working hard or we just don’t feel like we deserve it. It’s easy to forget that what … Read More
Tired of forgetting things? Some call it “widow brain fog” because widows are truly in a fog when grieving. I remember driving pass my road on the way home and we had lived there for most of our twenty-seven married … Read More
YouTube video I did about why couple friends disappear. A lot of widows not only lose their husbands they also lose some friends that continue life/travel as a couple and you are not – sadly you are now single.
Widows need something to focus on something beside their grief, to heal their broken hearts. Success doesn’t have to be big, lots of money or fame. Success can just be doing something that brings you joy. Here are some characteristics … Read More
It always surprises me how hard supposedly well-intended friends and family will work to insert themselves, uninvited into every detail of a widows life. They should find some other way to entertain themselves besides messing around in the personal life … Read More
We communicate with others on a daily basis, so why does it feel like we widows aren’t connecting with them? As a widow, when you need to address something unsetting, do you find it best to wait until you feel … Read More
As widows we are often in a fog and dealing with daily issues overwhelms us. Everything is stressful and we often do the wrong things in the hope that it will bring us some relief from our pain and stress. … Read More
Those early days of widowhood I’d just as soon forget, but all the pain and loss has shaped who I am today and is why I’m here to be part of your own journey. I provide valuable information, support and … Read More
First, willpower is definitely overrated and it’s a myth that you just need a little more willpower and you can do anything. Not only is it overrated, it can lead to great disappointments because willpower is fueled by our emotions. … Read More
As a widow you need to tell the truth about your emotions and you have to allow yourself to feel your grief. No matter how painful it may be, the first and best way to grieve is to allow yourself … Read More