Memorial Service
A memorial service is for family and friends. Some like to plan their own memorial service, going so far as to request that a recording of a video they pre-recorded be played at their service. Others may want family and … Read More
Paperwork and More
Widow fog is real and all the paperwork and more weighs us down. Everyone may have an opinion on what you should do, but not everyone is an expert or should be listened to. Below is a short list of … Read More
Keep a Journal
Please keep a journal and write out all your thoughts – the good, the bad and the ugly. Every six months go back and read over your writings. Widows seldom see the halting and painful steps by which the most … Read More
Are Widows Invisible?
Are Widows Invisible? Being a widow changes how we think about ourselves and how the world looks at us. It’s been years for me but sometimes I still feel like I’m half here and that if I’m not careful … Read More
Being a Hopeful Widow
Being a hopeful widow is what we all strive for. There is just as much chance that the best will come to you in any situation, as it is that the worst will happen. So why not be hopeful! Sometimes … Read More
Time to Move?
Is it time to move? Moving from the home you shared with your husband to a new place is never easy and a widow may not even be sure if a move is the right thing to do. I really miss … Read More
First Few Years As a Widow
In my first few years as a widow I searched out women who were years into widowhood and asked them to revisit that period in their lives. They made themselves available to me and shared their deepest feelings. It was … Read More
My Relationships
How do you relate to the most important people in your life? Ask yourself “Do I get what I need from my relationships?” and “Am I investing enough time and effort in my relationships?” In each of your relationships (family … Read More
What is Your Legacy?
What is your legacy going to be? What an awesome question! I wonder what my late husband, Donnie, would have thought about this question. I think he would have considered his strong work ethics to be his legacy to our … Read More
Widows Need Support
Widows need support and encouragement. These 7 people are key to your grieving in a healthy way. I talk about this on page 3 of my Relationship Guide, which is Free as a download from my website. Below is a … Read More