I recently had a conversation with a good friend who was having a hard time because a her brother didn't like the way she acted or dressed. He thought she was too loud and opinionated. This really upset my friend as she is actually very soft hearted. It got me thinking about how easy it is to judge someone by what we see on the surface. When we see a widow dating that first year or on the other side a widow that years later still hasn't accepted her husband's death are we quick to judge their actions? Let's be sensitive and kind because it's their journey not ours.