Giving a eulogy isn't easy, but it's something you will never regret doing because it's your chance to celebrate the person - and to say goodbye.  Of course you'll be nervous but people are there to honor this person - not to evaluate your speaking skills.  With that in mind, here are a few tips:
  • Write out a draft copy to practice on.
  • Try to relax and focus on the points you want to make.
  • Your audience is full of friendly people who care about the person your talking about.
  • Don't rush - read slowly and pause briefly between paragraphs.
  • Look up between sentences and focus on the back of the room to avoid distractions.
  • Keep is short and to the point.
  • Be careful with humor as feelings are fragile at this time.
  • Be sincere and do your job to honor and comfort those listening.
  • Don't worry about being perfect - it's an honor and that's what counts!