Do you know the man you're dating?  If your still grieving and aren’t emotionally ready to be in an intimate relationship, how are you going to determine if you’re with the right guy? They may be perfect BUT the relationship won’t feel right if you are spiritually or emotionally empty. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=AV085P2VMd0 You have to like yourself and know that you have a lot to offer a mate. Is your self-esteem high enough to love another person or do you feel so empty inside that you have nothing to offer except your neediness? When grieving you’re in process of change – unstable, growing and healing. You are different today from what you were yesterday and will be different again tomorrow. This period of change doesn’t make for a good foundation, so don’t move to quickly from dating into a long-term commitment.