Are you mentally healthy? Do you recognize that some things can't be changed or do you dwell on past experiences and daydream about different outcomes? After an emotional upheaval do you feel guilty about being happy or do you surround yourself with friends and family? Do you live in the moment and appreciate life or do you retreat thinking that life will never be normal again? Don't let your enjoyment of life be diminished by anxiety and worry over "what ifs" and "maybes." Be strong and accept that there are some things you cannot predict or change.