When we are grieving it can be easy to let others help us. They make decisions for us and guide us along when we are dazed by the lost of our loved one. But there comes a time when we … Read More
Is it better or worse how they died….suddenly or after months or years of suffering? We often wrestle with this question and I’ve learned to accept it’s all the same but different and no matter what it was, we would … Read More
I’ve been blessed and I want to pass that on to all the widows that are struggling like I was. To that end I am no longer selling my Guides as downloads – they are now available for free off … Read More
Today is the funeral for one of the widows in our “Chick’s Night Out” local group. She wasn’t 60 yet and had been fighting cancer long before the sudden death of her partner. She lost not only the love of … Read More
You may be thinking to yourself, am I experiencing a normal grief? The truth is, losing someone close to you can affect all aspects of your being. You need to heal socially, emotionally, physically, and spiritually. Although everyone differs, here … Read More
By far the most popular thought is that “time heals all wounds.” While this may be partially true, it’s important to understand that not everyone heals at the same pace. There could be ten people who have lost a spouse … Read More
SUNDAY MARCH 8th – INTERNATIONAL WOMEN’S DAY What will you be doing to mark the day? When we lose a loved one we lose a part of ourselves. It takes great effort to get back on our feet as we grieve and heal. … Read More
I’m having another “Change Your Thoughts – Change Your Life” workshop on Saturday, March 28th 2015. We need to recognize that we can’t control the past but that we can control our future. Don’t drift along with no goals or plans for your … Read More
Grief can cause us to spun out of control and with that goes all reason. This is a time when foolish comments and actions by others can cause us a lot of extra pain. You don’t need to forgive others for … Read More
The death of a loved one produces a lot of negative energy. Our natural reaction is find something to release this energy and make us feel better. S.T.E.R.B.S. – Short term energy releasing behaviors is all about the short term … Read More